I think that men have problems lol

I can see that I now have two of the nicest people following my blog
I should expand on what I thought about staying friends with an ex

I think that men, especially in their 20s do have difficulty being strictly friends with women
Ex- or not
Men do think about Sex all the time and some men will simply be content with pre-tending to be friends with a woman who they are attracted to
Then they hope that later on, down the road they can move from the Friends zone into the Romance Zone

I do get the impression that women are 100% fine with having male friends but that they expect the friendship to be respected and boundaries to be in place blocking romance

The guy will take any overture of friendship as an opening for romance down the road.

Ladies, please be careful with all your guy friends.
They may act like reliable friends but deep down in their soul they are probably hoping for something more than friendship: A real chance at a romantic relationship

This must be very true of an "ex" . I think that an "ex" who really wants to stay friends may simply be not over the end of the relationship and are hoping that a friendship can lead to a re-kindling of the romance

Ladies, please follow your instincts when it comes to maintaining friendships with men

I hope that everyone has a lovely weekend

Anthony